Life of rape victim : The real hell - Anonymous Informer

 Rape victim's life

Does the life of a rape victim become as normal as it was before?- The answer is NO!

The life of rape victims is the real hell. 

This so-called society never accepts rape victims as normal. According to research, it is estimated that 1 of 6 women and 1 of 33 men worldwide have experienced some form of sexual harassment in their life. Worldwide every 73 seconds a person is getting sexually assaulted. 

Here we will discuss about the life of rape victims.

The mental health of rape victim

We know that rape destroys the physical condition of rape victims but it also affects a victim's mental health. 

After getting raped a person's mind becomes destroyed. He/she always keep seeing flashbacks of him/her rape. They become depressed. They lose their mental stability and become affected by Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). 

In some cases after getting raped, the rape victim loses the desire to live, they do suicide. About 33% of rape victims have suicidal thoughts and most of them do suicide. 

According to the study, 34.2% rapists are family members. Rape victims can't live with it that their own family member raped them. 

Society

Society is the main villain in the life of rape victims. People of society makes rape victim's life a real hell. They treat rape victims as being raped was rape victim's fault. 

Some people think that wearing a short dress is an invitation to a rapist. 

That's not true if a woman is wearing a small dress, it doesn't mean that she wants to get fu*ked. 

Some old fashioned people think that doing late-night parties is the reason for rape.

Doing late night parties don't have any relation with rape. 

Some idiots think that if a girl is becoming friendly toward them, then it means she has any romantic feelings toward them, and in that case, they try to do s*x with the girl, which she neglect, which results as rape. 

If a girl becomes friendly toward someone, it doesn't mean she has any romantic feelings toward him, she only feels friendly toward him, not romantic. 

People never accept rape victims, they cut their connection with a rape victim, they don't want rape victims as part of their life. They don't want to be in a relationship with the rape victim, they don't want to marry rape victim. 

It is rubbish behavior of people, being raped doesn't make person negative.

Because of society rape victim goes in depression, trauma, and sometimes do suicide. Society keeps criticizing rape victims.

What to do? 

• People need to be educated about rape culture, they have to understand that being raped is not the fault of the rape victim. 

• People need to understand that being raped doesn't make a person bad or negative.

• People have to support rape victim mentally/physically as being raped completely change a person's mental and physical state. 

• Rape victims need to give second chance to life, they shouldn't take bad steps, which they'll regret in the future like using drugs, alcohol, etc. They should explore new things like traveling, making hobbies like reading books and novels, etc. 

• Suicide is not an option! People have to understand this.

• Rape victim doesn't need to afraid from society, they need to come forward and need to freely ask for help. If rape victim is feeling depressed or feel need to talk, then he/she shouldn't afraid just talk to someone, weather it is his/her family member, friends or psychiatrist. Just do talk! before it become too late.

Helpdesk for rape victims :

Helpline

International helpline : +1 2025014444

United state's helpline : 800–656–HOPE

India's helpline : +91-11-26944880, +91-11-26944883

Websites for help

International website : https://www.safehelpline.org/

United States website : https://www.rainn.org/

India's website : http://ncw.nic.in/

Disclaimer: Data here is compiled from various sources and by our own research. These data can be approximate and Anonymous Informer does not make any claims about the authenticity of the data.